What to Do Before Filing for Divorce in Massachusetts
- Cathy A. Marino
- Oct 21
- 2 min read

Divorce is never an easy decision. It affects your finances, your family, and your future. But taking steps to prepare before you file can help you feel more in control and protect your rights throughout the process.
If you’re considering divorce in Massachusetts, here are some important things to do before filing.
Gather Your Financial Documents
Courts require a full picture of your financial situation during divorce proceedings. Start collecting:
Recent tax returns
Pay stubs or proof of income.
Bank statements
Retirement and investment account statements
Mortgage, loan, or credit card balances.
Work and income history.
Having these ready saves time and makes it easier for your attorney to advise you.
Understanding Custody and Parenting Options
If you have children, custody and parenting plans will be central to your case. Think about:
Your children’s daily routines
School and extracurricular activities
How holidays and vacations might be shared
Massachusetts courts focus on the best interests of the child. Being prepared to discuss your preferred parenting arrangement can help keep the process smoother and less stressful.
Protect Your Credit and Property
Divorce can complicate finances. Before you file, it’s smart to:
Open a bank account in your own name.
Check your credit report.
Make copies of property titles, deeds, and insurance policies.
List valuable assets and personal property.
These steps ensure you know what you have and prevent confusion later.
Consider Your Living Situation
Will you and your spouse continue living in the same home during the divorce? Or will one of you move out? Housing can become a major point of conflict, so start planning early.
In Massachusetts, who moves out does not necessarily affect property rights — but it can impact temporary custody or support arrangements.
Consult with a Massachusetts Divorce Attorney
Even if you have not decided to file yet, meeting with an attorney can help you understand your options. An experienced Massachusetts divorce lawyer can explain how state laws apply to your situation and guide you through the process step by step.
The earlier you get advice, the more prepared you will feel when it’s time to move forward.
Next Steps
Divorce is stressful, but preparation can make it less overwhelming. By organizing your finances, planning for your children, and speaking with an attorney, you’ll be ready to make informed decisions about your future.
The Law Office of Cathy A. Marino has helped Massachusetts clients navigate divorce and family law matters with care and professionalism.
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⚖️ Disclaimer: This article provides general information only and is not legal advice. For advice about your specific situation, please consult an attorney.
